We all have heard at least at one point in time that teenage is a confusing period. Though partially it is true, there are few things that maybe lead to a stressful teenage life. One of the major problems is undoubtedly studied pressure. But apart from that, there’s another problem which is related to the problems that one faces in relationships and love life. So today I’m going to share a few problems that almost all of the teenagers face in their relationships, and hopefully try to provide you a solution too. So let’s get started.
Family problems
This is one of the major problems that one faces during their relationships, most specifically when they are teenagers. Mainly parents don’t allow their children to be into a relationship because they think that it may hamper their studies. Though we get irritated about this fact but let me tell you that they are partially true. Remember one thing, not every student is capable of balancing their relationships and studies, as a result, that makes their parents feel that the relationship is going to harm their children. So you see, they don’t allow you because they don’t want to see you in trouble in your future due to the actions that you make in past.
The only solution to this is that if you love your partner, then ask them to wait for you and stay in contact with them as friends. Then your parents won’t probably have any problem too. Try to keep your relationship private until you tell your parents about it. See, hiding something from parents isn’t a great thing, but if you actually maintain the bonding of friendship with your partner until the right time then your parents would never have a problem. In that case, let me tell you that parents understand everything, so they would somehow get to understand the bonding between you and your partner and would eventually accept it when they feel that you are mature enough to be into a relationship.
Balancing studies and love life
This is a serious problem that a teenager may face in their relationship. I’ve seen a lot of people talking to each other the entire night, getting up late on the next day, missing school or college, and again ending up talking to them for the rest of the day. Well, let me tell you that these are the signs of an unhealthy relationship. This is the reason we are unable to give the same amount of time to them when we get into the work field or something new. So the only solution to this is that we need to know our limits and give space to everything. If we maintain things from the beginning then it will stay for the long term and will not become toxic with the increasing days. Now you may say that when we fall in love we don’t understand how time revolves around us. But you see, as you give so much time to your partners in the beginning but don’t get the same efforts and time from them after some months then you feel that your partner is not giving you time or is avoiding you. This may be true or a misunderstanding due to the actions that you both made in the beginning. And you forget the main thing that your studies get hampered. Remember one thing, falling in love and balancing your studies is the only healthy way for a teenager to cope up with both. Otherwise, if you feel that your studies are getting hampered then you should take a break. What more you can do is that you should sit and talk to your partner about this and fix them. Because in the end if you and your partner are both unable to achieve your goals then there would be no love or respect left, only blame and disrespect would be left.
Deterioration in health
Well, this is partially true. A lot of teenagers may relate to this point and a lot may not be able to do so. This usually happens because you expect a lot from your partner and they are unable to fulfill the same or maybe you expect the necessary things in a relationship and they still are unable to fulfill the same. This may lead to excessive stress which results in weight loss, loss of appetite, nauseated feeling, and a lot more. So please remember one thing, you need to love yourself first and they fell for you because of who and what you were. So prioritize yourself first, not always but definitely whenever it becomes necessary.
Though there are a lot more points these are the major points that you need to understand and improve yourself on them accordingly if you find it relatable. Hope this article helps.
